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title: "Episode 10: Performance Reviews and Performance Enhancement"
show: "Family Wealth & Legacy"
host: Mark Haynes Daniell
episode_number: 10
element: Governance, Leadership & Succession Planning
duration: 9 min
url: https://create.podmark.de/family-wealth-podcast?ep=10
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# Episode 10: Performance Reviews and Performance Enhancement

> Why legacy families need a formal performance review system, and how a simple two-page tool can raise everyone's contribution.

## Summary

Mark Haynes Daniell explains why most wealthy families lack a formal performance feedback system, and why honest reviews are both rare and hard to obtain. He outlines a practical two-page review approach with objectives, strengths, weaknesses and development plans, and shows how consolidated insights can guide investment in family development and succession.

## Chapters

- [0:00](https://create.podmark.de/family-wealth-podcast?ep=10&t=0s) Welcome and topic introduction
- [0:43](https://create.podmark.de/family-wealth-podcast?ep=10&t=43s) Why families lack a review system
- [1:27](https://create.podmark.de/family-wealth-podcast?ep=10&t=87s) Case study: preparing the third generation
- [2:54](https://create.podmark.de/family-wealth-podcast?ep=10&t=174s) Why honest feedback is so difficult
- [3:58](https://create.podmark.de/family-wealth-podcast?ep=10&t=238s) Learning and growth from negative experience
- [4:36](https://create.podmark.de/family-wealth-podcast?ep=10&t=276s) The practical two-page review form
- [6:39](https://create.podmark.de/family-wealth-podcast?ep=10&t=399s) Confidentiality and consolidated insights
- [7:40](https://create.podmark.de/family-wealth-podcast?ep=10&t=460s) Two questions to ask your family

## Key takeaways

- Most wealthy families rely on informal conversations and lack a formal performance review system, which limits everyone's chance to improve.
- Honest feedback is hard to give and receive because people avoid criticising children and leaders of wealthy families.
- Genuine growth comes from accepting performance gaps and negative experience, not from confirmation of what we already do well.
- A simple two-page form covering objectives, three positives and negatives, strengths, weaknesses and a development plan is better adapted to families than a long review document.
- Confidential individual reviews can be consolidated to guide family-wide investment in training and development for a stronger future.

**Keywords:** performance reviews, performance enhancement, generational transition, 360 degree feedback, family governance, succession planning, development plans, next gen readiness

## Full transcript

Timestamps in square brackets mark the second the sentence starts.

[0:00] Hello and welcome to this podcast series on family wealth and legacy strategy. My name is Mark Haynes
[0:06] Danielle. I'm the founder and chairman of the Raffles Family Wealth Trust, a boutique advisory
[0:11] firm focused on the strategic and educational needs of legacy families around the world.
[0:18] Today's topic is performance reviews and performance enhancement. It's all about putting
[0:24] in place the kind of systems that are needed to help individuals and the group improve their
[0:30] performance, move to the next level, and find the right ways to invest in their own development
[0:36] to make the biggest possible contribution they can to the family and its greater enterprise.
[0:43] And this idea is not common to very many families. A number of families outside the family business
[0:50] where they may have a performance review system, don't really think about giving people performance
[0:55] feedback. They think they do it through conversations, but they don't have in place
[1:00] a formal system for looking at performance reviews, strengths, weaknesses, individual
[1:07] development plans to invest in to improve future performance, and a tracking of investment and
[1:14] improvements in performance as a result of that. So having in place a family performance review
[1:20] system can make all the difference in improving the performance of that family. In one example,
[1:27] a very large and prominent family on the continent was looking at a major generational
[1:33] transition program from the second to the third generation. And in getting the third generation
[1:40] ready to take on the responsibilities of ownership, decision-making for family, family businesses,
[1:49] investments, family office, family social relationships, etc. The older generation
[1:57] were worried that the younger generation hadn't really gotten enough performance information to
[2:04] be able to improve their performance. And when that younger generation said, we'd like to do this,
[2:09] The older generation not only thought that was a very useful thing to do, it gave them the confidence that the younger generation was serious about their performance and agreed to participate themselves.
[2:21] So you have two leaders of the family. There are two brothers and a sister who were shifting responsibilities between the three of them.
[2:29] They were responsible for this program, and it really led to a big investment in training, education for next gen and for people within the businesses and people outside the businesses.
[2:42] So it was a major investment that family made for all their members, whether they were in the family business or not.
[2:49] So it is an important thing to do, but it's not easy.
[2:54] Children of wealthy families and family business owning families don't like to get negative feedback.
[3:00] People don't like to give it to them.
[3:02] People that are not inside the family, even some that are, don't like to give negative performance feedback because of the risk of losing jobs,
[3:09] angering owners, angering the parents of the kids, angering family members that may not be parents but are involved in the business.
[3:15] So actually getting honest feedback is a very important but very difficult thing to do.
[3:21] And I think that one of the reasons that children of wealthy families don't like to get performance
[3:25] reviews that have negative content is that they're not used to receiving it because people
[3:31] are always trying to please children of wealthy families more than of whatever their age,
[3:35] more than in other families because of the potential benefits, particularly if they're
[3:39] in a business relationship with the family business.
[3:42] So they don't like to give negative feedback and therefore children and older members of wealthy families, the family business owning families, don't have the kind of opportunities and don't get the kind of the opportunities to improve that they might.
[3:58] We all know that our positive experience doesn't really teach us very much.
[4:02] It just confirms what we already know.
[4:05] It's our negative experience, which can be unpleasant, that may involve failure, underperformance, conflict.
[4:10] is accepting that knowledge, accepting performance gaps, learning how to do better. That's how we
[4:18] learn and how we grow. And so having the courage to put in place a performance feedback system,
[4:23] perhaps led by independent outsiders, can be a critical part of the long-term success
[4:29] of the family. So what can that look like? Having a 12-page review form isn't usually
[4:36] well adapted to most families. But having something like a two-page form where you list out
[4:41] on one side of the paper what the objectives were for this period, what the measures were,
[4:47] and then assessing performance, looking at three positives, three negatives, three successes,
[4:52] three failures, and an overall assessment of meeting expectations, exceeding expectations,
[5:00] substantially exceeding expectations, not meeting expectations, or substantially not meeting
[5:05] expectations. Might or might not be linked to a salary review, but could be a very important part
[5:11] of a communication with an individual about what he or she could do to make things better.
[5:16] So having that set of objectives, performance against the objectives, looking at strengths,
[5:25] looking at weaknesses, putting in place a development plan can be the second page of
[5:29] the review form. So what were you, what you're expecting to do, expected to do, did you do it?
[5:35] What less, what was positive and negative on your performance? And then looking forward,
[5:39] what are you going to do to fix the weaknesses, continue with the strengths and advance your
[5:45] career? So having that kind of two page performance review system, short bullet points, key messages,
[5:52] assembling input from, from, from a number of people around through the famous 360 degree
[5:57] feedback can be a very important step, an obvious thing for most businesses, not an obvious thing
[6:03] for many wealthy families, and in particular for the leaders of wealthy families who are much more
[6:08] used to being obeyed than being criticized. So these patriarchs and matriarch, these three
[6:14] leaders of this one family, all actually enjoyed the experience. They thought it was quite useful.
[6:18] It was fresh and new to them. It's more like a next practice, well-tailored for the future,
[6:24] than a best practice that a lot of families bring forward from the past.
[6:28] And looking at the inclusive nature of that experience
[6:32] and looking at the family's consolidated reviews and development potential was very useful.
[6:39] Obviously, performance reviews are confidential to the individual and to the reviewer in most cases,
[6:46] but then the consolidated information can be very useful for family leaders to say,
[6:50] here's what we need to do differently, here's what we need to continue doing, and here's what we're
[6:55] going to do in practical terms to provide presentation skills, training, financial
[7:00] analytical skills, integrating activities of family units in different countries. Whatever
[7:05] needs to be done to create the best future for a family is much more likely to happen if you have
[7:12] real information on individuals, real information as an individual yourself, and a real commitment
[7:19] to following through on those performance reviews, individual development plans to enhance your
[7:26] performance, make your own performance stronger, then contribute to a more united, stronger,
[7:32] and wealthier family in the future. So if you like what you hear, I wish you well. I think
[7:40] it may be useful to ask yourself just two questions. Do we have adequate performance
[7:45] feedback for everyone in the family from the top to the bottom, from the bottom to the top?
[7:49] Is it a good system?
[7:51] How can we improve the system?
[7:52] And if we don't have a system, should we put one in with what sort of sensitivities, with
[7:58] which timing, and what do we really want to get out of it, which could be a lot?
[8:02] And how do you bring people along with the design and implementation of a system like
[8:07] this if it's something you really would like to put into your family's documentation,
[8:12] education, career planning, and ethos of always wanting to improve where you are for the future.
[8:20] So I wish you well in answering that question and in following up on it. And if you like what you
[8:25] hear and see, please subscribe to this podcast channel. Visit our websites, rafflestrust.com
[8:32] being one of them. Attend one of our workshops or conferences around the world if you are near
[8:39] or available to join us where and when we have those events.
[8:43] And please get in touch personally.
[8:45] I'm available on LinkedIn, and you can reach me on MHD,
[8:49] for Mark Haynes, Danielle, very cleverly, at rafflestrust.com.
[8:54] I can't promise to respond to all of your emails and thoughts,
[8:57] but I will read them and take them into consideration
[8:59] in improving my own performance,
[9:02] kind of a strategic review from people with a very wise perspective,
[9:06] which would be very much appreciated if you'd send it along.
[9:09] So thank you very much for your attention,
[9:12] and I look forward to seeing you again soon.

## Source and limits

This transcript is the recorded wording of the episode, hosted by Mark Haynes Daniell. It is general framework and experience, not investment, legal or tax advice. Produced by Podmark.